‘[She said] I was lazy and acting tired’: Massage therapist enforces a no-overtime policy with an entitled client, she responds with a texting tantrum and gets herself blocked

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Etai Eshet • Editor
Jul 27, 2026 7:15 AM EDT

Nobody explains this rule anywhere, but apparently once you're good at your job, you forfeit the right to ever be tired

Do the work well enough and people start treating your energy like a subscription service that auto-renews forever, no cancellation option, no customer support line.

Say no to someone and watch how fast "you don't care" comes out of their mouth, like caring was ever supposed to mean infinite availability. Nobody actually believes that when it's their own boundary being tested. Try telling your boss you need him to stay late for free because you really care about the project and see how far that gets you.

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  • Today I had one of the most entitled clients of my career over one simple boundary the she refused to make sense of

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  • After back-to-back long days, I finally had to enforce a boundary with a client and I genuinely don't know why some people think massage therapists aren't allowed to be human.
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  • This happened yesterday.... I've had one of those weeks where every day has been packed. Multiple long sessions, tons of driving between appointments, and by the end of the day my hands and body were definitely feeling it.
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  • I love what I do, but I've learned the hard way that if I don't protect my schedule, I end up burning myself out.
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  • Because of that, I have a pretty simple policy. I don't take last- minute add-ons once I've already committed to a client's session.
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  • If someone books 90 minutes, they get my full attention for those 90 minutes, but I don't extend it on the spot anymore.
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  • So I finish a client's massage and everything seemed completely normal. She thanked me, told me she felt amazing, and I started packing up my table.
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  • That's when she suddenly asked if I could stay another hour. I apologized and told her I couldn't because I had already worked a long day and needed to head home.
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  • I explained that I'd be happy to get her scheduled for another appointment if she'd like.
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  • Her entire attitude changed. She rolled her eyes and said, "Seriously? Someone your size shouldn't need breaks." I honestly thought I misheard her.
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  • I said, "Excuse me?" ●● She doubled down... She said, "You're young. You're a big guy.
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  • I don't understand why you're acting tired. If you actually cared about your clients, you'd stay." I just stood there for a second trying to process what she had actually said.
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  • I told her, "I'm sorry, but my schedule for today is over. I need to take care of myself too." All irritated she grabbed her phone, and said, "Wow.
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  • I'll definitely be telling people how unprofessional this is." I wished her a good evening, loaded my equipment into my car, and left.
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  • I figured that would be the end of it. Nope. About twenty minutes later my phone started blowing up.
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  • First it was messages saying I was "lazy." Then she told me I "must not need the money." Then she said she hoped I "learn how to treat paying clients." I didn't respond to a single one.
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  • I simply blocked her number and moved on with my evening. A few years ago | probably would've felt guilty and questioned whether I should've just stayed.
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  • Now? Absolutely the f not. Not even a little. I've realized that protecting your own energy doesn't make you a bad therapist.
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  • It makes you someone who actually wants to have a career that's still around five years from now.
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  • The compliment-to-insult pipeline moves faster than a toddler’s mood after nap time gets skipped. One minute you’re a genius, the next you’re lazy, greedy, and somehow bad at your job, all triggered by the same two-letter word. It’s less an opinion changing and more a mask falling off.

    Then the messages start coming in, and none of them are actually about the original problem anymore. It’s just insults thrown at a wall to see which one sticks, half of them contradicting each other, like someone screaming both “you’re overpaid” and “you clearly don’t need money” in the same breath.

    Holding the line anyway is the whole game. Cave once and you’ve just trained everyone that your limits are negotiable if they push hard enough. Hold it and you get to keep doing the job in five years instead of quietly hating it

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